As I was browsing my photo albums today,  I stumbled into this old photograph with my cousin.

Mitch&Mai

She is the closest person I have. We practically grew up together, although, I am 1 year old than her. That means, she's 16 at when this photo was taken. She's like a sister to me. We share a lot of things in common. We don't feel ashamed with each others dirty closet. We're so close yet so open at the same time. Whenever she asks for a favor, I don't refuse nor hesitate as long as it is within my reach. Like typical sisters, we fight-a lot.


So here's the thing..


She is getting married in two months to her boyfriend of 9 years. Imagine that? Ugh. How could someone stay in a relationship that long? All the while she's in relationship, here I am enjoying the life of being single :D I remember the longest one I had was 2months? although, I do had an on and off relationship with John, remember him? my first boyfriend that I shed tears with non-stop when I heard he's missing during the flood Sendong that ravaged the lives of so many in the city of Cagayan de Oro last December 2011. That was the most tragic event that ever happened in my family. I'm still not over it. I can't imagine what my family went through. I wasn't in the city when it all happened, if you remember, I was in Manila for my on-the-job training. But anyway, that's not what I'm supposed to share. Haha! I got carried away. lol..


So, anyway, back to reality now..


She's asking me to help in organizing the wedding, I'm in-charge with the song thingy! What do I put in my list? I have no idea about wedding songs. Ugh. Weddings are indeed the most stressful event ever! Do you have any idea? I mean, you might wanna suggest some songs? classic? or new or whatever that I could write down? Anyone?


hmm..let me know if you have songs in mind so I could present it to her, aye? :-p 


Thank You! ^_^


to wrap this all up.


this is us, 10 years after :) 

Can't get enough of a peace sign huh? :D well, that's just me. 

I understand my last post: Message That left Me Hanging has raised a lot of confusions to everyone. I missed some details that leads to false assumptions and for that, my apology. To clear this out, I'd like to say that his gf is out of the picture. He really was the one who sent that message. He did it for some reasons that I swear has nothing to do with any romantic feelings. He thought it's for the best. I'd rather not go into details but rest assured he has no intentions of confounding me neither hurt me in anyways. He made his explanations but as much as I wanna share it to you, I think I would just keep it to myself, as the saying goes "some words are better left unsaid (as for me to you)" lol. Sorry if I have to keep you off from the details (I know, I owe you that one) but I think, I will just do what I was told to do. "Not to contact him in anyway anymore"

For what it's worth, I'd like to say thank you for all your honest opinions. Guys! You're truly the best!

Precautions: I posted a photo to show that this upcoming topic is sort of relevant to my previous post (but it's not connected somehow), so as not to screw things up. This post was composed last week but I was out of words and I kept editing it, changing and stuff and then finally decided to published just now. So, please don't think too much. ^_^

I'm a spoiled brat. I admit. I'm guilty of that. In my circle of friends (the other set; with guys) I used to be pampered. I am the princess, the only girl, the youngest, the star. All ears and eyes are on me. I don't need to clamor for attention. I have their attention. I used to be the apple of their eyes...

..and then she came along.

The Girlfriend

Girlfriend is defined to be "female acquaintance or romantic companion" compared to a friend with only one adjective-companion.

You know that feeling when one of your friends get romantically involved with another person? The feeling that you're left alone.

Neglected. 

Unattended. 

Forlorn.

Ignored. 

You feel like you are being abandoned and that you are companionless. When they start being unavailable with you and your drama issues? When things start to change because of her. All you just wanted to do is to choke that girlfriend to death! *I'm KIDDING* lols

The Story 

(My boy-friend and I)

I have a friend, a close friend, a guy. We spend time together all the time. He was the best. Until one day, things changed. I seldom see him around the campus. He starts avoiding me. He ignore my calls and he doesn't reply to my messages anymore. It's strange. He isn't the type. He knows I hate being ignored. It pisses me off. He knows I'll get mad. He knows it. But he didn't mind. So I confronted him the first chance I got. And then he said, it was his girlfriend who told him not to see me again. He didn't wanna argue with her that's why he did it. It was a foolish idea, I thought. I would never do that to my boyfriend. It's unfair. Besides, it's his friends. I am his friend. I wouldn't asked him to desert all his friends for me. I mean, c'mon! She should be more considerate, not to mention the fact that I met him first before she did. Right? 

So to avoid complications, I gave way (for him). I tried to befriend her (his gf) but she's too classy and well, maybe, she really didn't like me (that's why). She thinks I'm flirt! That I'm flirting with his boyfriend. She thinks I'm a threat. Jeez! Get a life girl. I mean, whatever..

(My ex-boyfriend and I) 

This is funny. The reason I included this one in my story it was because I recently had a talk with him (my x, you'll get to know him in my next post). He's currently working abroad. We seldom talk because his gf deleted me in his facebook account which by the way I find very very annoying yet entertaining at the same time. Annoying because I'll be outdated with his life, like I care that much? but after we broke up (which turned out we didn't) we still wanna be updated with each others life of course. You know, to see how things work out for us after the separation. Who moved on first and blah blah? haha..To make fun of each others update and stuff like that. Just like that. Just to bug each other. Nothing else.

 So what happen now, we'd chat thru skype/ym without his gf's knowledge.

So my point is, gf's! please, don't be such a bitch. Not because I am your bf's xgirlfriend doesn't mean your bf and I can't be friends anymore. Okay? If you'll do that more often, you'll just push him to the edge. See what happen now? We still keep in touch without you knowing it because he's afraid you might freak out again! That's what you get if you'll let your jealousy win. Enough already. Just be cautious. You don't need to be mean or you don't need him to make a choice between you and me. Of course, I wouldn't mind if he'll choose you over me, that's alright. But let's not complicate things. We need friends. Let's not deprive our partners with that. Let's respect each others boundary especially if you know very well that "romance" is totally out of the picture. Well, not unless if you're not confident you could keep him still with me around, huh?.. *evil grin*

So here's for you ladies.."there must be a reason why your boyfriend isn't mine or isn't hers" okay? so, chill out! There's no way I'm gonna rob your boyfriend, okay? If ever, you think, I will. Then stop me. Let's have a girl-girl talk. May the best girl win =))

Alright, lastly..

Trust him. Don't let your jealousy rule over you, or it will eat you piece by piece and will leave with nothing but every piece of it-torn apart.

Ladies and Gentlemen!

Tonight is the night. 


Anyway, correction, only a few friends made that demand. Like 2 or 3? haha!

A few friends requested that I should share my own love story in fairness to those love stories I published. Unfortunately, for me, I don't have any to share. Yeah. I've never been in love! (I guess) But anyway, that's not the point. Tonight, instead of sharing a love story that I never had, I will share about my first boyfriend.

Yes. I once have a boyfriend. I've got 4 actually but will only share the first one. ^_^

To start with..

Meet John..

I met him through a friend-Chris when I was 16.  I was naive. I was a senior in High School. He's from a different school. He's a year younger than me. He was like the "crush of the campus" in their school. He's good looking way then. He's charming and really handsome. But I was immune of his charms. I don't know anything about him. I'm intrigued though. Some of the girls were drooling over him. For sure, a guy like him will never pay attention with a girl like me.

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Ladies and Gentlemen welcome back to my page! 

This is a sequel to this post: Wicked Sister Meets The Brother's Girlfriend. You met JOAN (my brother's girlfriend for the longest time). Now, you will get the chance to know the woman who broke my brother's heart into pieces. Okay! She's the wicked one because she broke my brother's heart! jk! (This will be the last time I will put my brother's history into this mess)..Ü

Dalyn

Long time ago, way way then. I was young, so young, so much younger than today. It was the summer of 2001 (if I'm not mistaken). My brother went home for the holy week. We're outside our house, chilling, and stuff. We talked a of lot things. Mostly, about schools, dreams and all. I was in high school and my brother was turning 3rd college. He lived with my grandparents in the city, while me and sisters are with my parents. He's my only brother and the eldest. Every time he comes home, we would just talk and talk and talk and catch up with what he's missing in our life. In the middle of our conversation, he just stopped and he asked me to listened to the radio. It was a hill song. Then, he told me, Dalyn likes to listen to this kind of music. Who the hell is Dalyn? I hissed. To make it short, Dalyn was his girlfriend or the girl he likes. I don't remember exactly. 

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Wondering what's this all about? 


Okay, It's pretty obvious, isn't it? (this topic is all about my brother's girlfriend)..♥

JOAN and My Brother MICHAEL

(In the title) I have to put "wicked" before sister (that's me) to emphasize how bad I was way then. Of course, not that I would pick a fight on her or bully her or what. It's because, for the longest time I never exerted an effort to really get to know her. Not that, I don't like her. It's just me not getting over with my brother's x. Gosh! 

Do I really have to share this with you? haha! (I'm so dead)

Fine! 


Let's get this over with. 



Jobelle or Joan is a very sweet girl who's musically inclined. She sings very well. She plays instruments too, like, violin and guitar. She's artistic and very much into fashion. She's shy and smart and writes pretty well.

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Ola beautiful ladies and handsome men! Welcome to my page ^_^

Whoa. Too much for a warm welcome eh? hehe!

Yesterday, I read this blog from Matthew's Blog in titled Titles Are Tough and even posted a comment that goes like this "usually, I don't struggle with titles. hehe..Idk why? maybe because, I'm not too concerned whether or not my title is catchy or not at all. hehe! But I guess I'm wrong! nah. not guess. I'm very wrong. LOL!

Omg! what kind of an introduction was that?

Whatever! 

As for tonight, I will share to you these 3 ladies way back in my high school life who really made my life interesting and lot more fun than I could ever imagined :)

Without further ado, let me give you a little something about these ladies I'm about to feature.

Ready? Alright!

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Beware of Misconceptions.Ü *MERELY*JÜST4FÜN*


High school for me was one of the most memorable part of my life. It brought me pain, happiness, craziness and enjoyment. I've experience so much fun. I've been through a lot of things. Fought over nonsense issues and got myself wasted. Also in high school that I made friends and established a bond of friendship that cannot be destroyed not even in distance and time..

What are you in high school? 

Are you the nerd type? 

the mean? 

the funny? 

the gossip girl? 

the saint? 

the KJ? 

the crazy? 

the head turner?

the crush ng bayan? 

the top student?

whoa. speaking of which, do you have any idea what happened to your classmates who made it to the top of your class way back? do you still keep in touch with them? are you still friends with them? lol. (of course, I am)


Now, let's  get to know those students in my class who were lucky enough to surpass my intelligence and made it to the top. ROFL


Anyway, get to know our top 10 students and a little bit information about them (courtesy of our yearbook :) and see the difference :)

Let's start with the VALEDICTORIAN ^_^ --------> CLICK IMAGE to view it clearly ^_^

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BLAST FROM THE PAST
Note: I was bored and decided to post pics from my high school friends. take a look, who do you think changed the most?
I posted this photo already a few days ago in my post "DECADES" where I featured myself growing up..now, let's see where are these girls now after 9years..^_^
This was taken September of 2001. As you can observe on the photo, we're wearing our uniform in CAT (Citizenship Advancement Training), just because, this was after our drill presentation :)
Get to know them..let's start from the back..left to right..

-Esper 
*the top student of our circle. 
-Venus (the one wearing the cap)
 *the most shy and sensitive person I've ever known. 
-Margie 
*the artist..she does all the drawing projects :D
(front..left to right)
-Mielyn
*the singer..she's the striker, she says whatever that's on her mind.
-Mai (me)
*the mean..I was the snob and the most talkative of all.
-Anita
*the patient..she's the most understanding of all but careless. 


My circle in high school: of course, we parted ways after graduation. Esper and Margie stayed at our province and chose to finished their college there. Esper took up Computer Science while Margie chose Education major in General Science. Mielyn was an Accountancy graduate, I guess? hehe..I'm not too sure, among the others, she's the only one I didn't keep in touch with throughout college days. While and Anita and Venus decided to pursue their studies at Cebu City, Venus took up Mass Communication and Anita enrolled BS Commerce but later she (Anita) dropped out of school and went back to our province. As for me, in case you're wondering why I'm still studying when the rest of my friends already have their careers maybe 4 or 5 years ago. That's is because, I've been shifting and transferring from one school to the other. On my first year in college I took up engineering and education on following year then Chemistry where I lasted for 5 semesters but chose to dropped out once again and finally settled myself in Hotel and Restaurant Management and I'm so proud to say that I'm on my last term already. yey! ^_^
For what it's worth, let's see where are my girl-friends now..? what happened to them after 9 years? are they married? have kids already? where are they? -->check it out..^_^

-she finished her bachelors degree and currently working somewhere in Makati, Manila.


I saw her just last April, we actually met with Margie, we had dinner together and chitchat :D 
We had so much fun..^_^

Margie same with Esper is now living in Pasay, Manila and working somewhere in Makati. 

Mielyn is now in Italy. She decided to go abroad for her kid. I haven't seen her for a while now. All I know is that, she already have a little girl but not married though :)

Venus just resigned from her 5years job and decided to look for another environment. I was with her just last last week before she went back to Cebu for her exit interview.

And lastly, lastly because, I don't have a recent photo of Anita. I haven't seen her for a while now. She already have kids also, I mean kids..like 3 or 4 I'm not sure. Now she is living with her husband and the last time I saw her was 2 years ago I guess? and I wasn't able to take her a photo :D

Guess who? lol. that's me..with our circle, I'm the only one who is still studying :D Imagine that! lol. but anyway, soon..you'll see me marching and throwing that stupid graduation cap. lol ^_^

fin

A photograph of who I came to watched Transformers "The Revenge Of The Fallen" and Transformers "Dark Of The Moon" 
Transformers 2, I came to watched with them:

Janine, Nico and Nikki

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Series of pics from so long ago up to now. ^_^

this is me when I was 3 or 4. can't remember exactly. hehe

Mai (at the center) @16

(L-R) Melanie and Mai @13

(L-R) Mitch @16, Mai @17

now ^_^ @ 26

Now, this is how I look, I really don't think there's a difference, although, the picture when I was 3 or 4 years old was undeniably far from the rest. haha! I look like a Rugby girl or some kind of a gang kid. lol. ^_^

Now, I grew up thin and petite :) or should I say, I never grew up at all after high school? oh! this is sickening :D

but whatever ^_^ I'm happy as how I am today ^_^

-ohayou gozaimasu everyone!