I'm currently watching this Korean drama series "12 Men In A Year" don't worry this is not a review" ^_^, it's just that..
It's my sister!
she keeps telling me that I will never get myself a boyfriend. That I'm pitiful because I'm single. Jobless and unluckily penniless :(
At some point, she's right.
But what can I do? It's not like I'm gonna die not being in a relationship, right? But probably die of famished.
Sure, being in a relationship seems to be fun. You have someone with you not all the time but atleast someone who's oblige to "think" of you every now and then, if he even bothers. lol
Someone who will treat you out for a date (waste money on you) and greets you in the morning, afternoon and evening. Someone who will constantly sweep you out of your feet. Someone who acts nicely, treat you like a princess or even a queen. Someone who says sweet nothings. Someone who will argue with you, laugh with you or worse makes you cry but will kiss your tears away in the end. Someone who can turn your world upside down. Someone to think of and someone other than friends and family you can build your future with..
Should I go on?
Nope.
I'd rather not.
I might not stop :)
You see. There are some good aspects of having a relationship but as I mentioned in my previous (so long ago) post, there were reasons why I remained single and my sister just don't get it.
You think I should get one?
and then snap!
Nope. I don't think so. I'd rather be single than to go out with different guys I don't like :p
Hmm..I remember my cousin once told me,
you should find a guy who likes you more than you do.but I actually prefer the contrary.
I don't know why. It's just that. I am more than happy being with someone I like a lot even if he likes me less. weird eh?
Hay. I dunno how will this topic ends up but basically I need to connect the whole thing to the title "12 Men In A Year" ..
..hmm, I was thinking of giving myself a break. aye? I need to loosen up a little.
I need to start hunting-GUY HUNTING..
and we even come up with a style.
whatever that is, it will be shared once it's being realize :)
As for now, a question was being raised.
Which would you prefer. He/She likes you more than you do or the contrary?
I prefer being single. Easier.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoy being in a relationship as opposed to being single. Oddly enough, I'm rather domesticated.
ReplyDeleteSingle Rocks!! haha.. though sometimes my point din na I was aiming to enter a relationship.. pero it doesn't matter naman if your single or not eh.. ang importante eh enjoy ka sa life mo...
ReplyDeleteWell I think that someone I end up with is inevitably going to like me more than I like me, but if you mean how much we like eachother, I'm likely to win that battle, and like them more than they like me. I don't really mind which way it is. You can remain single for as long as you like, there's nothing wrong with being single, and if anything I know people who sometimes lament that they aren't single, no matter how much they love their partner.
ReplyDeleteIt is much easier being single. Especially when you have other priorities that you're dealing with. As cute and sweet as you are, I have no doubt you could find someone quickly if you wanted to.
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And oh yeah ... I don't really know for sure about the like them more or they like me more. I mean, I know one of the two will happen because almost every relationship is that way. I just don't which I prefer. My expectation is that I will like them more.
ReplyDeleteJay
Hehehe. Hey! I should agree with your cousin! But thinking about it, I changed my mind. My point goes to you! :)
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing wrong with being single, you will have all of your time for yourself, but it would be nice if you have that someone who you can share everything with. Just like me. When I was single, I'm happy all by myself, but now that I am taken, I'm better. I found a boyfriend, and a best friend in one. It depends on who you find though.
YOu just have to keep in mind, that being in a relationship should inspire you to be better, not the opposite.
I think in the US there is a book called the Year of Yes. It chronicles the dating spree of a woman for the entire year. She agrees to meeting anyone her friends, family, and even acquaintances will set her up with.
ReplyDeletei agree, you shouldn't rush into things :) enjoy being single and doing whatever you want. And maybe a little inspiration from crushes wouldn't hurt, too :)
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Wait wait, you mean the guy likes you more than you like yourself, or do you mean the guy likes you more than you like him?
ReplyDeleteWhere were you? Hehe..i'd say the latter.
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