I understand my last post: Message That left Me Hanging has raised a lot of confusions to everyone. I missed some details that leads to false assumptions and for that, my apology. To clear this out, I'd like to say that his gf is out of the picture. He really was the one who sent that message. He did it for some reasons that I swear has nothing to do with any romantic feelings. He thought it's for the best. I'd rather not go into details but rest assured he has no intentions of confounding me neither hurt me in anyways. He made his explanations but as much as I wanna share it to you, I think I would just keep it to myself, as the saying goes "some words are better left unsaid (as for me to you)" lol. Sorry if I have to keep you off from the details (I know, I owe you that one) but I think, I will just do what I was told to do. "Not to contact him in anyway anymore"

For what it's worth, I'd like to say thank you for all your honest opinions. Guys! You're truly the best!

Precautions: I posted a photo to show that this upcoming topic is sort of relevant to my previous post (but it's not connected somehow), so as not to screw things up. This post was composed last week but I was out of words and I kept editing it, changing and stuff and then finally decided to published just now. So, please don't think too much. ^_^

I'm a spoiled brat. I admit. I'm guilty of that. In my circle of friends (the other set; with guys) I used to be pampered. I am the princess, the only girl, the youngest, the star. All ears and eyes are on me. I don't need to clamor for attention. I have their attention. I used to be the apple of their eyes...

..and then she came along.

The Girlfriend

Girlfriend is defined to be "female acquaintance or romantic companion" compared to a friend with only one adjective-companion.

You know that feeling when one of your friends get romantically involved with another person? The feeling that you're left alone.

Neglected. 

Unattended. 

Forlorn.

Ignored. 

You feel like you are being abandoned and that you are companionless. When they start being unavailable with you and your drama issues? When things start to change because of her. All you just wanted to do is to choke that girlfriend to death! *I'm KIDDING* lols

The Story 

(My boy-friend and I)

I have a friend, a close friend, a guy. We spend time together all the time. He was the best. Until one day, things changed. I seldom see him around the campus. He starts avoiding me. He ignore my calls and he doesn't reply to my messages anymore. It's strange. He isn't the type. He knows I hate being ignored. It pisses me off. He knows I'll get mad. He knows it. But he didn't mind. So I confronted him the first chance I got. And then he said, it was his girlfriend who told him not to see me again. He didn't wanna argue with her that's why he did it. It was a foolish idea, I thought. I would never do that to my boyfriend. It's unfair. Besides, it's his friends. I am his friend. I wouldn't asked him to desert all his friends for me. I mean, c'mon! She should be more considerate, not to mention the fact that I met him first before she did. Right? 

So to avoid complications, I gave way (for him). I tried to befriend her (his gf) but she's too classy and well, maybe, she really didn't like me (that's why). She thinks I'm flirt! That I'm flirting with his boyfriend. She thinks I'm a threat. Jeez! Get a life girl. I mean, whatever..

(My ex-boyfriend and I) 

This is funny. The reason I included this one in my story it was because I recently had a talk with him (my x, you'll get to know him in my next post). He's currently working abroad. We seldom talk because his gf deleted me in his facebook account which by the way I find very very annoying yet entertaining at the same time. Annoying because I'll be outdated with his life, like I care that much? but after we broke up (which turned out we didn't) we still wanna be updated with each others life of course. You know, to see how things work out for us after the separation. Who moved on first and blah blah? haha..To make fun of each others update and stuff like that. Just like that. Just to bug each other. Nothing else.

 So what happen now, we'd chat thru skype/ym without his gf's knowledge.

So my point is, gf's! please, don't be such a bitch. Not because I am your bf's xgirlfriend doesn't mean your bf and I can't be friends anymore. Okay? If you'll do that more often, you'll just push him to the edge. See what happen now? We still keep in touch without you knowing it because he's afraid you might freak out again! That's what you get if you'll let your jealousy win. Enough already. Just be cautious. You don't need to be mean or you don't need him to make a choice between you and me. Of course, I wouldn't mind if he'll choose you over me, that's alright. But let's not complicate things. We need friends. Let's not deprive our partners with that. Let's respect each others boundary especially if you know very well that "romance" is totally out of the picture. Well, not unless if you're not confident you could keep him still with me around, huh?.. *evil grin*

So here's for you ladies.."there must be a reason why your boyfriend isn't mine or isn't hers" okay? so, chill out! There's no way I'm gonna rob your boyfriend, okay? If ever, you think, I will. Then stop me. Let's have a girl-girl talk. May the best girl win =))

Alright, lastly..

Trust him. Don't let your jealousy rule over you, or it will eat you piece by piece and will leave with nothing but every piece of it-torn apart.

DO NOT CONTACT ME IN ANYWAY ANYMORE!

I don't have issues with people telling me that, but I think I deserve an explanation why in the world they want me out of their life all of the sudden. Right? I mean, what did I ever do to be in this situation? I kept asking myself that question that very moment I got his text. I was stunned. I froze myself wondering why he said that, why he sent that message. Why oh Why?

I can't think of anything or anything at all that will make him say that no matter how hard I try to recall things between us. The last thing I remember was, he would call on in the middle of my sleep (around 2am or 3am-that's morning already) and I was concerned about that. I was worried that something might had happen. If his okay or what since I never answered any of his calls just those times. Until we finally spoke, he said he dreamed of me and that woke him up and that's the reason he called. And that's it. We had a nice a conversation. He even told me he didn't know what to give me during graduation. I was surprised, really. I never thought he'd thought about that.

Later..

We never spoke for a while, no exchange messages, no phone calls, no chats, although, I've been such a nuisance with him sending him 'pm' in facebook because I wanted to put him in my resume as one my references, and I was asking what's his title but he never replied in any of those. That really confuses me. But I thought, maybe he's just busy or something. So, I let it go. 

And then one day, I got his text saying that I should not contact him anymore or in anyway which startled me until now. I don't know what to say, my reply was "ok" and then later, I asked.."Why?" but nothing, I got nothing. I don't know what happen. I don't know what to think or whatever. I then finally find myself blocking him in my facebook account thinking it's the best thing to do. 

I did the right thing, did I? I mean, what kind of friend would do that? What could be his reasons? I want to know what, why, how? oh! I'm gonna die thinking about that! Sucks. 

By the way, in case you're wondering. He's my friend, I mean, I guess? We're close. We share things, gossips and we've known each other for a while now. We're okay. He has a girlfriend by the way but I don't think it has something to do with his action. I don't know what changed him. I don't know what made him do that. He has his reasons, I know, but what could it be? Oh! kill me now!!! 

 If it was you guys? what could be your reasons?

..and I can't tell you who. But I can tell you why. ^_^

I like him because I find him Nice. Cool and Funny ^_^

He makes me smile. Nah. Actually he makes me laugh. The thought of him makes me shivers. 

Gosh. 

It's demented! 

Yeah. 

It is!!! 

Really! 

Me? 

Liking him? 

It's insane!!! 

I don't want anything to do with him because I think he has a girlfriend :(

Ugh. I'm going mad!!! jeez!


I want it so badly to stop-right now!!!





 
 

February is in it's last week already and March is fast approaching and so is our graduation. ugh! I can't believe it. Finally! after 10 years of studying college :)

Alright. Here's the last part of our Ilocos Trip,  See the rest here: 4x4 Off Road Ride & Sand Surfing @Sand Dunes and Breathtaking Scenery @Pagudpud.

The last place we went to see was the place I've been longing to visit since I was thirteen-The City of Vigan. 

Take a look O_O 

Tour started at..

Paoay Lake 

 

 Juan Luna Shrine

 Pottery Making =)

The City

See the architecture? It's vintage. Even the fast food chains or the shopping stores. ^_^ fascinating..

 Syquia Mansion of President Elpidio Quirino

 Crisologo Museum

St. Augustine Church

 Oh! There's the lovebirds :D Bryan & Ericka ^_^

 Beautiful Sunset :D

I forgot this one :D they make sorta I don't know. haha

Baluarte Vigan-The Fortress of Vigan 

  Calle Crisologo - Mena Crisologo Street

Shops and Souvenirs :D

Dinner @Cafe Uno Vigan :D

Going home :D

-END-

It's been a week already since he start calling to wake me up :D And he do that every morning. So even though I'm still so damn sleepy, I don't wanna waste his effort so I'd get up and start my day no matter how early it is for me :D

So, how's your day? I hope everything goes out well. ^_^ As for me, I had a terrible morning. I dropped my ring (friendship ring) into the sink while washing my face and it took me almost two hours before I recover it. Gosh. I was so damn worried I'd lose it. ^_^

Anyway, today is no ordinary day. Just another day of massive dumping of photos. But this time I'd like to share my niece's pics taken a week ago. She's five now and she's changing so fast. She became more wiser and meaner each day that comes. But whatever. I love her still :D

Introducing my pretty niece :D 

Xin-Xin 2008 onwards

 

Xin2x :D 2011

This pic was during my photo challenge :D 

 

 when I saw her eating at Jollibee

 and last Nov. while playing at memorial park :D

Xin Xin 2012

^_^

demure look

xoxo

^_^

Hello fellow bloggers! ^_^ 


Today I will be sharing with you my brother's funny marriage proposal that took place at Vienna Kaffehaus here in our city. 


Expect the unexpected. 


First, let me tell you how I ended up being there during the proposal..


The night before my brother proposed, he showed me the ring and asked me what I think about it. I simply replied, "okay" not bad at all. I find it too simple for an engagement ring. Yes. For me it was the simplest ring I've ever seen but it's cute. It's just that, as I said, it's too simple. But of course, what I think don't matter, though I said, you should have told me this earlier so I can take a look some rings too and blah blah blah..


I then told him, let me know when are you going to propose  so I can spy on you guys and sneak some pics. But he told me, nope! I'll ask Edwin (he's friend) to take the pics because I don't want you posting and sharing this in your blog-but see? here I am. haha!


Yesterday morning, I received a message (SMS) from him telling me to meet him at Vienna Kaffehaus at 6pm that afternoon because he wasn't able to inform Edwin ahead of time and Edwin did not bring with him his camera so he wants me to be one to take the photos while he's proposing-which by the way made all things a little bit awkwardly funny.


Why?


Because in the cafe, although there were customers also, but lucky for us we're sitting somewhere at the corner of the kaffehaus and they were just right next to me so, that left us unnoticed-which is a good thing.HAHA! I was watching and listening the whole time (before, during and after)  my brother made his proposal. Don't you find that funny? I did. =))

The whole scenario..

I arrived first in the Kaffehaus..


I ordered lemonade..

My brother arrived with a flowers 

and left again to fetch her girlfriend -Joan of Diaries Of An Indistinctive Writer, who I presume you knew already. She's a blogger also and was featured once in this post-Wicked Sister Meets The Brother's Girlfriend (Diaries of an Indistinctive Writer).

Later, the two of them arrived :D 

(pre-proposal moment)

And then the proposal..

there's a video actually but I'll be doom for sure if I will share it on blog. haha!

it wasn't the most romantic, cool and sweet proposal ever but it was the funniest, one that neither me and Joan would ever forget. haha! My brother didn't even know where to put the ring-right or left? he put it on first at Joan's right hand and then later removed it and put it on her left's. crazy, right? I was laughing til the end. haha! Maybe he was nervous and he felt awkward with me around, but as for me, I did really enjoy that moment. haha!

but ALAS! he made it through, ALIVE. ^_^ that's all. ^_^ 


Next time,  will share with you my thoughts about engagements esp. my brother's engagement and marriage :D

CONGRATULATION!

Inserted :)

This was tagged to me by Matty long long time ago. I promised to answer it asap but unfortunately I didn't :(
but here I am finally answering it Matty ^_^


Question One- Sadly you're forced into competing in a fight with famous boxing legend Mike Tyson in his prime. Before fighting him in the ring however you're allowed to pick three other bloggers who would come out individually to fight Mike before you had to (you know, with the intention of weakening him or beating him so you'll have an easy fight or won't have to.) Who do you pick to fight Mike? 

-I'd pick one only and it would be Henry of Onetofu because as far as I can remember, he had his karate background or whatever. hehe!

Question Two- What super power would you pick? The ability to read minds to teleport to anywhere you want to three times a day, to see everything you touch turn into gold or to turn into a cockroach on a whim (that's not really a power though but still!)

-Reading minds is so awesome, I guess. I'll know what people thinks about me and whether I'll be happy about it or  I'll just high five them in the face, plus it will be a lot of fun reading peoples' crazy ideas. Invasion of privacy at its finest baby! Ha! :D

Question Three- Some record company bigwig phones you up and orders you to be featured with any musician alive or dead in their next album. Which musician do you pick?

-Enrique Iglesias. First, because he is hot. Second, because he is hot and sexy. Third, he's hot, sexy and I love his voice. :D

Question Four- Can you draw? If so draw me however you interpret me, it's fine if you can't!

-I'm sorry, I can't. But I ask my friend to do it. :) Here's a cat, instead. I love cats. -THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A CAT! hmp :( there must be something wrong during editing :( Does it look cat to you? hehe sorry..I don't know how to get it back together. haha

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Question Five- What would you rather be? A bar or a car? (My best friend Ryan once asked this question during "open mic" night at a bar and the confused faces made back at him were hilarious.)

-A car would be great since I love travelling.

Question Six- Um, could you tell us something about your past that nobody on here knows yet?

-a guy let me out in his car and left me in the middle of nowhere at 1am in the morning because I didn't wanna make out with him. I was scared to death and I wanna cry out load but I didn't, of course. But the good thing was, he came back and apologized and he sent me home after :D

There's a rule attached in here that I should tagged some also with another set of questions but I chose not to since this was an  overdue already. hehe! ^_^