April 05, 2012

I've Been UNFRIENDED and Been Blocking People On FB Lately!

Have you ever blocked someone on fb? 

deleted or unfriended someone perhaps on your friends list? If you did,

..mind telling me your reasons? 

Do you think you did the right thing? 

Does it make you feel better after all? 

Do you think you're being fair? 

How many people (as you can remember) did you block or unfriend/delete in fb?


I know I'm being childish. I've been feeling a little down lately and I swear it has nothing to do with me blocking or shutting people out in my fb account. I am not usually the "blocker" type. I even accepts friend requests even if I don't know the person thinking that the reason he/she adds me because he/she wants to know me. Also, as long as we do have friends in common, that's okay. 

I am not sure what to feel if someone will unfriend me on fb or worst, block me. Oh! Yeah, I was unfriended with someone I met almost a year now, we had a huge misunderstanding and then I later found out that he unfriended me, yet, instead of feeling bad about it, I felt the contrary, because I was really thinking of blocking him also but he just happen to did it first, which was  a good thing. Aye? No need to expound the details. It was a very bad experience :)
Oh no! My memory was wrong. I wast unfriended  with other 3 different guys (that makes the guy above the 4th one).  They were my friends. HAHA! but the funny thing was, when I asked them, they have no idea about it. So, it turned out, it wasn't them who really blocked and unfriended me, it was their gfs. LOL
This first quarter of the year, I already blocked 4 friends in my friends list. I can't believe it!
to think that the two of them were my closest friends, who just happened to be a guy. The other one was a no friend of mine, the last one was sort of a friend on line. 
  • The first guy I blocked on fb was a friend of mine. I mentioned my reason in this post. who still my friend in my other account. haha! but I deactivated my other account so, I don't need to block him again.
  • the second and the third are partners. details are not to be tackled for now.

He keeps sending me messages in Italian. I find it annoying since I don't speak nor understand Italian. but thanks to google :) At first he thought I was a poser. That I am guy pretending to be a girl and been using other's identity or something. I swear I got mad but eventually I kind of get his point, maybe he really just wanna make sure he's making friends with someone who really exist or true or something. But he's becoming really weird, he's talking about love, admiration or whatever, he's sending me videos and all. He's not obsess but the way I understand his messages, I think he likes me or I don't know. It was flattering at first and then later I find it annoying. He sends me messages non-stop and I hate it! So, I blocked him. And yesterday, someone sent me this.. 
ciao sono un parente di severino giovanni e lui voleva sapere il motivo per cui lui non ti ha più tra gli amici 
Can you believe it?!!! 
Yeah, I know. He must be wondering why in the hell he can't find me on fb but you know, I haven't answered any of his messages anymore, well, I did a few times, saying sorry and that I don't have time with him and that I don't think we have to talk since we can't understand each other because he doesn't speak English and I really don't like talking to him and stuff. At least with that I thought he'd get my point, that I really don't like talking to him anymore, but he's persistent, no matter how many times I told him in Italian that, he still doens't stop sending me messages, so I BLOCKED HIM. and yeah, I was thinking of blocking that someone (who claimed to be his relative) who sent me that message above. 

I just hope he will not make another account or pretend to be someone else to add me again because I really had enough of his dramas. I'm being mean but I'm really annoyed of his action. I can't take it anymore :(

Oh! what a tiring holy week. 


  1. LOL Either he was trying to get under your pants cuz he badly needs an ESL tutor, or he was a troller/spammer.

    So what's that screenshot all about? I don't speal Italian as well.

  2. I never delete or block anyone simply because I use Facebook to keep track of what people are up to.

    Yeah, I'm kind of creepy that way. :P

    1. hmm..I don't think you are. I think it's a wise move :D

  3. I hate people blocking me on Facebook too Mai, there's seriously nothing more annoying and hurtful in my eyes than when somebody does that. When it comes to me so many people just hate my dick-ish sounding updates and I understand that but I will never view somebody who does block or delete in the same kind of light ever again when I see them in person or hear another friend talking to me about them.

  4. ginawa ko na rin iyan...ang pag unfriend..

  5. I don't think you were being mean at all there. The guy was beyond creepily obsessed really from the sounds of it. As for myself I've never really blocked or unfriended someone, but I was unfriended recently after a friend fell out with me. She added me again after we made up though.

  6. i blocked some of my ex-bf who still stalked me... and i've blocked by an ex-girl friend who hated me, lol! but now, i think she's the one who leaved bad comments on my blog, i just deleted the comments right away!

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  7. I've defriended a couple of people on Facebook, but only because they posted something I thought was racially offensive. I've never blocked anyone on Facebook or Twitter, but there is one guy who I'm considering blocking because he just annoys me so much! ha

    I've been blocked by two people on Twitter after we got into arguments, but I've never harassed anyone like the guy you blocked. He deserved it.


  8. I haven't really blocked anyone that was a personal friend or family member. Just random weirdos.

    1. well, I don't block weirdos, they don't bother me, but I do hide their updates so it won't appear in my feeds. hehe

  9. I blocked my brother after he tried to strangle me. Don't know exactly what that accomplishes, but I don't regret it. He won't be able to spy on me for my mom anymore :P Aaand why was the Italian dude chatting with you? :))

    1. we don't chat, I mean, I don't really call it chatting since he's the only one who's sending me messages, though once in a while I would reply but only to let him know that I really don't think we should be talking since we don't speak each others language. plus, translating was kind of annoying :d

    2. If someone ever bothers you again, I suggest you link him to Omegle, where all the desperate singles meet.

      And this is my blog: http://absquatulatingacrobat.blogspot.com/ although I might make a new one if my friends find it :))

    3. your blog is private? 'coz when I tried to open it, it said, "permission denied" haha..

    4. I don't remember making it private. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FIX IT :))) I'll ask Google later :D

  10. I kick 'em all to the curb if they aren't close friends. I have family members with over 1000 friends. Idiotic, if you ask me.

    1. omg. i got more than a thousand also, meaning? haha..

  11. yii~ so creepy. I play fb but seldom add strangers in order to avoid this kind of problem. Because I feel something social media will cause some troubles. But, nvmd, seems like your blogger friends are all supporting you now ^^

    That's why I love blog then tweet or fb ^^

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  12. nagawa ko na din yan na banned naman na

  13. I've unfriended a lot of ppl, but not because of anything dramatic. They just ended up being people I never actually hung out with. We met once and talked and then Friended each other but then nothing else happened. Every so often I would perform a 'culling' and remove people I didn't even really get to know. They probably never noticed.

    The only dramatic un-friending I did was of S-girl.

    -Do you think you did the right thing?
    Yeah. She needed a push to move on.

    -Does it make you feel better after all?
    Yes, I don't need to know how she's doing all the time and she doesn't need to know what I'm up to either.

    -Do you think you're being fair?
    It's better this way, for both of us.

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